David Halliday
Deborah, If the cracks around the metal this is a common problem when ferrous metal that has been placed inside the stonework. As the metal rusts it expands and causes the stonework to crack. By the sounds off it you have structural movement taking place this is quite difficult to comment on without paying a site visit. I would suggest calling a local structural engineer and asking that they provide a survey ( rough cost basic £ 700). You say replace with concrete lintels it may not be feasible to replace natural stone with concrete ( listing building). Dave