My kitchen lights 1 light runs off 1 switch and that switch puts on both lights and an outside light wires inside that are normal to me standard brown blue green the second light can be switched on/off from 2 switches the 1st switch I mentioned and another in the kitchen that also switches on the dining room light the wires coming out of that different there is 3 big grey wires each with red wire black wire and 1 without any colour i wired it up with 1 and it works but wont switch on or off now that switch doesn't switch anything on or off how does that get wired up or am I looking at getting in a spark